I’m with Eic re. Intercourse on very very first date. It is maybe not sex this is the problem, it is that which you do after intercourse. And sex shouldn’t be considered a bargaining chip but an automobile for bonding. Intercourse should result from self-love or love and self-love to him. Intercourse has NOTHING whaatsoever to complete with not enough self-respect. I totally disagree with this prudish notion.