Many homosexual men will give consideration to bottoming at some point. But, the very thought of carrying it out for the very first time can be frightening. Don’t let that put you down.
You may would rather douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with big dicks/toys. Utilize simple, clean water, ideally at body’s temperature. Prevent using shower attachments – water stress could be dangerous. You may get douche bulbs online or from any sex shop that is good. Do not exaggerate and irritate the liner of one’s arse, as this will make you more at risk of STIs.
Grab yourself relaxed with plenty of foreplay like rimming or fingering. Some guys do utilize amyl nitrate (poppers) to flake out the muscle tissue around their arse but there are two main major wellness warnings. Poppers:
- Were associated with an elevated danger of HIV transmission
- Don’t mix with erection drugs like Viagra and will cause a coronary attack.
Yoga breathing is far safer, enables you to flake out and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that fits the dimensions, curvature and angle of one’s partner’s cock.